March 20, 2012 7:27 PM PDT
Quick8 said:Hey guys...well...I have to be honest...this is the first time I post on this board...just joined like 10 min ago. I did because I met a dancer today...at a Club in Industry...she is amazing...very cool and down to earth... Anyways, it made me change my thinking about dancers and what they want in life....I think I am more than just interested in her... What advice can you give me. Quick8
Hey Quick8,
This is just my take on it, but if she isn't willing to spend time with you in the club while business is slow and is not willing to meet with you outside of the club for a something casual or even just texting etc, move on and clear your head. She's probably just looking to empty your wallet.
I understand she may not be willing to meet with you or exchance numbers after a first or second encounter. But if you're dropping fat amounts of money just to get some face time with her, I think that's a very very very very bad start.
Also you got to keep in mind, are you going to be okay with her dancing if you two do end up getting together? Are you trusting enough, not the jealous type, etc etc etc etc.
Sorry to be a killjoy, just trying to help.