March 26, 2012 8:15 PM PDT
@danthaman -I don't know where you live exactly, but I stay in the IE and there is a lot of diversity. In some areas of the IE, much like the rest of So Cal ,the predominant race is hipanic. I know a lot of white women who date Latinos and they don't have to act black to get them either. Like I mentioned before, the clubs out here are filled with mostly Latino PL's. When the strippers complain about the ones who are touchy feely they never refer to them as "gardners","mexicans", or "wetbacks" but only call them perverts or horn dogs. Believe it or not, a good percentage of the time when they point these "perverts" out they are referring to a white guy who looks over the age of 55! These guys are called "pervs". But the other truth is that the other majority of perverts are the ones who come from across the border, don't speak english and get called "dirty wetback". And there have been many times at the SC where the girls ignore a group of black guys because they are "ghetto". Not saying the derogatory terms are right, but just like other terms of negative connotations they have been incorporated into everyday language. In my opinion dosent mean that a person is racist. U Don't have to agree with me, but a group of black guys being loud drawing unnecessary attention to themselves or disrespecting a dancer should be called ghetto.
I've been to strip clubs in No Cal, Vegas, in the Midwest where a black guy dosent even get a look from a white girl and the latino that fits what you described yourself as gets a lot of play! Nor do they have any problem out here getting any live from a white girl. A lot of Asians get love also. Over at Synn in City of Industry and Spearmint Rhino a lot of girls complain that the Asians only get dances from white girls with blonde hair so sure enough who do you think they flock to when they are in a club. They only see green so any other color would impact their pockets.
As I read more of your post I am getting the impression that you realized the clubs you visit or the particular girls you have been chasing may be the problem and are now turning this topic/board into a race relations issue between one minority, blacks, and how they are perceived or accepted in american society in comparison to other minorities. That is fine and I appreciate a good debate about these sort of issues. You have brought many things to my attention that I haven't thought of and don't view your opinion as racist but rather what it is, your personal observation supported by specific evidence. But this site is for dancers,pls, and clubs to interact with eachother, promote their business as a club or as a dancer and socially network as many don't do it in person when visiting the clubs. With the latter not being that uncommon. Just look at twitter and Facebook where people talk to a person they may hawks never met in another state but can't even break bread with their next door neighbor.
I wish you luck finding you a white girl but if I only limited myself to wanting to date one race I would have missed out on all the experiences I had dating women of all races and cultural backgrounds that made me whom I am today and greater appreciation towards what this world has to offer.